Whooo! Chilli wants a lot. On her reality show, she brought along a self-help author to help her find a man, which is going to be tough because Chilli has a long list. For the first episode, the author talks to her mother, bandmate T-Boz and even her son’s father/producer Dallas Austin. They agree that she’s hard to please. They also show her having dinner with boxer Floyd Mayweather. It’s too bad they’re afraid of messing up their friendship. I say they should give it a shot. You only live once!

Does Chilli need to compromise more?

I’m watching their new reality show on VH1. Basically, the premise is that their mother, Sonja Norwood, is ready to back up from the management role and wants Ray J and Brandy to take the reins. The question is are they ready? It seems like they should be but they have a few issues (i.e. the towing of the charity van). It should be interesting to see if they actually take over but I think they’ll still need help with management.

Isn’t it hard or impossible to manage yourself?